Tomorrow, we're leaving for San Francisco!
We always spend Christmases with my parents, and Thanksgivings with Tad's. We worked that out a bit ago through trial and error, and it seems to be the solution that is best for everyone. My parents and family are crazy about Tad; they usually take his side over mine on most things. *g* I'm just glad that the relationship is a solid one and it eases my mind that they get along so well with one another. Holidays are stressful enough without adding more, you know?
We'll be flying, which, meh. There's always complications when flying, regardless of how well you prepare or how seasoned a traveler you are. It'll be worsened by the holiday rush. Mostly the airports do try to be polite and accommodating, I'll give them that. But we've had a couple of times when they considered Tad a *problem* and not a *person,* and while I'm a pretty mellow guy, that's the one thing guaranteed to make me go postal, because I will not have that. Tad has a temper, yeah, but honestly, I can outdo him when I really get pissed. I seldom get angry on my behalf, but let someone treat Tad with less than he deserves, and there it goes.
Anyway. I've been to the vet and gotten Lola her light sedative for travel. She's an excitable little thing and the hubbub and commotion of air travel sends her spastic. So I'll give it in the morning, put her in her sweater and carrier, and hope for the best. It's so much easier on her if we drive, but the time frame just didn't allow it. I wish that I could just smuggle her on in my coat, but I'm pretty sure I can't get away with that.
I'm really looking forward to seeing my family again. I know just how lucky I am to have such great parents. When I came out to them, it wasn't "oh no, you're a shame to our family"--and I've had friends who've had that experience, even in San Francisco--but more of a worry about my safety and health. I had to swear to be careful, and I always have been. But anyway. They accepted me for who I am, not for the sex of the people I choose to have sex with. As I said, very lucky.
We'll get to see my brother's fiancee for the first time. I'm looking forward to it. Kudos to her for willingly becoming involved in the craziness that is the Parrish family. She's a photographer for the newspaper my brother works for. An office romance, of sorts. My sister is single, but bringing one of her friends home with her--it'll be a full house. It'll be great.
And there goes Lola, dragging my scarf across the living room floor. No wonder the ends are ragged.
Happy Holidays, everyone--I hope they're as good as I know mine will be!